As school begins, excitement and anxiety build for all the wonderful surprises and challenges that we will meet in the coming year. We might be excited to see our friends again, or we might be worried about the new subjects we will uncover. However, there is one basic rule that we need to remember in school and in life: listen. That’s it. All we need to do in life is listen. True listening isn’t doing our best sponge impression and soaking up everything that’s around us. No, true listening is taking in information and wrestling with what we discover. This week we read parashat Eikev, a Torah portion where we are reminded what happens to those who listen to God. The Israelites are told that they belong to an eternal covenant with God, one that requires listening (read: caring for) the Earth and all the creatures that live upon it. Moses explains to the Israelites that true listening is an act of love done with our whole heart, mind, and being. For the student, the husband, the … [Read more...]
The Sublime, Holy Beauty of Music
Music has always been at the heart of Judaism in story, history and prayer. In Bereshit, God sings the world into being, and in Shemot, we sing ourselves to freedom as we wade through the red sea. In the book of Dvarim, Moses offered his dying words to Israel in the form of song. Abraham Joshua Heschel describes song as “the most intimate expression of man.” The Hassidic movement in Judaism elevates the practice of singing wordless melodies, niggunim, as the ultimate method of attaining true prayer. As Rabbi Reuven Hammer writes, “what words can adequately express our prayers to God? What words [alone] can truly capture the depths of our emotions at times of grief or of overwhelming joy?” The melodies of our prayers serve as a vehicle towards d’veikut, the feeling of closeness, or oneness with something greater. The melodies hold up our words. Melody and music become the conduit for our souls. When we come together as a community, our prayers become offerings to each other, and … [Read more...]
Exploring the Silent Space
We are, in part, defined by the space around us. Who we are not… what we are not…where we are not. In that space is often unarticulated possibility. Silence. Last night I returned from a private, three day silent retreat hosted at a Catholic monastery in Conyers. The Monastery of the Holy Spirit is an active haven for Trappist monks, who vow to live a life of beautiful simplicity, much of which is done through silence. For me, the Abbey provided a sparse but functional room, simple vegetarian food, and lots of space for venerated silence. I’ve spoken before about the qualities of silence, each type being different…and in each of those types of silence I can recognize subtleties of my own spiritual character. After all, it is the space between the piano notes that make the music sing, and it is the space around each letter in Torah that holds a world of potential. So too, the silence around each one of us. I would thank you, my beloved congregation, for … [Read more...]
Finding Unity in 929 Days
The 9th of Av, which we commemorate this Saturday night, is a day of mourning. This is the day, tradition tells us, that the Babylonians destroyed the First Temple in Jerusalem and the Romans destroyed the Second Temple. While we lost a sacred space, the holiest place of our people, we Reform Jews mourn the even greater destruction of Jewish unity in the Land of Israel. Unity begins with love for our neighbor and ourselves. Two thousand years later, we still fight for that unity in Israel and America. Some days we make progress, and other days we take a step (or two) back. The Talmud teaches us that the Second Temple was destroyed because of the hatred that existed between human beings.[1] The Jewish people lost whatever unity existed and experienced enormous tragedy. We must restore and strive for the unity that comes with a greater understanding and love for each other. What unites all Jews is a shared text, the Tanakh (an acronym for Torah Neviim-Prophets, and … [Read more...]
Ok, I’ll say it: I love summer!
I love the weather, being out in nature, and the fact that it gets dark so late. I treasure being able to step back a bit from the hard pace of the year, rediscover passions, and strengthen friendships. I appreciate the chance to return to a true sense of self. But what I cherish most is the chance to reconnect to my family. Most years, when our kids get out of school, we take a family trip. Some years this means loading up the car and experiencing parts of America, other years we manage to journey abroad. In this time we bond in a way that is easily identifiable as profound, and perhaps even ‘holy’. Not that its ever easy (or quiet) to suddenly march to the same tune, all at the same time, on the same schedule. Personal space becomes a joke. It can get…intense. But gradually, and gladly, we begin to groove. And this unified rhythm sets the pace for us in a way that seems to sustain us for the rest of the year. Afterwards, we borrow what we have gleaned on … [Read more...]
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